Life as a Miller

my cool family fan

2011-11-30T10:02:00.000-08:00

I think this is pretty cool. Last year many of you know that I spent a good chunk of time getting to know my ancestors by typing up their handwritten life stories. It really has sparked an interest in me to spiritually get to know them. I love thinking about their journeys, what they wish they had done or hadn't done, how at this time they know my mom and probably work with her on being a ministering angel in the next life. Really - it is a fun way to spend some meditation time. I am excited to feel them close as I learn about them.
Well - just yesterday a friend posted the following link on facebook:

Genealogy Fan Chart

It is amazing! It helped me see up to nine generations back in the blink of an eye! I highly recommend everyone do it; find out where your genealogy has holes & get to work... I think I want to do some hole filling this next year. Here is my fan chart now... can't wait to see it start to fill up!

Rhett & His Kidney...

2011-09-27T18:26:00.000-07:00

This past August was Rhetts birthday, and what a chain of events occurred. We decided, due to begging & pleading, to take the family to Lagoon for Rhett's birthday. Well as the night grew darker Rhett began complaining that his stomach was hurting. So of course I just kept telling him FART! I was sure he was just trying to be a considerate kid that with all the junk food he was eating his poor stomach was filled with gas.
Well, Sunday & Monday passed, but none of the "gas" passed. And he was sporrting a fever... So we had to make the journey to the doctor. Tuesday morning I said to Aaron as he was taking him to the doctors, "If we pay 25$ & they say it's gas I'm going to be so mad!!!" Then off to work I headed. Later that afternoon Aaron called me and said, "Well, it's not gas." I cried, "I take it back - go give them another 25$ and ask them to tell us it's just gas!" We were heading down to Primary Children's Hospital.
Now if this seems like dejavu... Yes, last year we brought Roman to Primarys for an Asthma attack. Good times, good times! Actually, many blessings came from that experience. And so it has been with Rhett.
After many, many, many, many test it appears that since birth, or right there after, Rhett's kidneys have not been functioning all that well, the left more so than the right. So, with much discussion with doctors & Heavenly Father the decision was made to remove the left kidney & monitor the right kidney as he grows. So here we are at Primary's waiting for him to come out of surgery. It's a little scary, but we have so many people who have blessed our lives, not to mention the loving care of the Holy Ghost that reassures us that the Lord knows us personally & has a plan for us that is extraordinary. So we follow in faith, knowing that what ever happens is the path that brings us closer to Him. Of coarse that means we keep the commandments, repent, forgive, & serve others. We are strong because of His love & the love of those around us. Rhett has become more & more closer to his Father in Heaven, as his earthly parents we are grateful!

Our future obviously will be filled with more kidney updates, but for now we are living every day grateful for each moment together & ready to give back to all those we come to know.

Kenidy's Baptism

2011-06-23T12:51:00.000-07:00

On Friday June 3rd, Kenidy made the decision to become a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day-Saints. She was baptised and confirmed by her father and made her mother very proud and happy. She has always been a beautiful girl and you can see in her video how many people love and care for her. We are a blessed family to have her in our lives. I am excited to see what the next eight years will bring. Knowing Kenidy it will be filled with love, adventure, and LOTS of LAUGHTER!

Because it's Easter...

2011-04-20T12:34:00.000-07:00

This past week a friend of mine shared an amazing CD with me, Lamb of God, by Rob Gardner. If you love the music from Les Miserables you will absolutely love this CD. Be mindful those who choose to REALLY listen, it is indeed a moving and life altering experience. I listened to it on my way to work and well, I had to reapply my make-up completely.

Understanding what happened to our Savior and to those close to Him in His final week here on this earth and through the time He was resurrected on it's own (through scriptures) is incredible, the music that Rob has put with it.... there are no words (even though I am trying). Please note - this is not an exageration! I recommend you all take a bit of your Easter weekend and listen to Christ's story so eloquently told to us through music by Rob Gardner.

I would like to share the words to one of the songs that lifted my spirit and hope that it brings you hope.

FYI - you can go to his web site or itunes to order or listen.

No. 11 ‘Here is Hope’

MARY (MOTHER)

He who healed our sorrows

Here was bruised and broken.

He whose love no end knows

Here was forsaken,

Left all alone.

Here despair cries boldly,

Claiming this its vict'ry.

Sweeter peace enfolds me:

Hope did not die here,

But here was given.

Here is Hope.

He who was rejected,

He knows well my longing

He, so long expected

Carried our burdens,

Bore ev'ry sorrow:

Here is Hope!

CHOIR

Here is love unbounded,

Here is all compassion,

Here is mercy founded!

MARY

Hope did not die here,

But here was given;

And ours is the vict'ry.

Here is Hope.

Thank you Nicole for sharing this with me. I hope you all have a great Easter weekend and remember why it is indeed a celebration of life and death.

FAAA - CCC- TTT!!!!!

2011-03-21T08:59:00.000-07:00

So this weekend Aaron and I had a fun time with some friends up in Lava Hot Springs. We enjoyed sitting in the hot pots, eating at the White Wolf (tempted to play BINGO with the locals), playing Canasta, Golf, & Dominion, and just hanging out. We laughed a lot and had a hard time getting back into the swing of things. It's a good thing the kids didn't have school today or they would have been SOOO late as Aaron and I did NOT want to get up and get back into the daily grind. In any case, I wanted to share some of what was laughed about this weekend. Some of you may have already seen this... THANKS DICOUS & LARSENS for sharing it with us! WE CAN'T STOP WATCHING IT!!! Also.... it is very kid friendly ;D - YEA for clean humor!

Happy New Year...

2011-02-24T13:07:00.000-08:00

Yes, I know it is February and that New Years has come and gone, not to mention Valentines Day, my husbands birthday, and well a lot of other things. I also know that I'm starting to lose sight of my new year's resolutions so I thought I'd start all over! SMART, right?! Well - I'm recommitting myself to school today and yes, ALI, say it... say it out loud...
HEALTH!
(OK - I guess I didn't need to scream it!) But, yes, I am going back to the gym. I've been doing really good not to drink pop - still mourning my beloved Diet Dr. Pepper, but none the less - I'm still on the bandwagon! So although I'm not really caring (Well I'm trying NOT to care) about my weight... I'm really just focusing on my health. Being active, and remembering what my mom used to say - It's not what you don't eat, but what you do eat that matters!

SO - HAPPY NEW YEARS EVERYONE!!

MY STARS!

2011-01-27T10:44:00.000-08:00

Take a look close at these videos... my little one's were on TV this Wednesday! WAY COOL!! Unfortunately we had to wake up WAY TOO EARLY - but they had fun!
First - Kenidy!

Then Rhett...

And finally Roman...

Aren't they cute... OK, so you have to play "Where's Millers" but they have made their television debut!Now they can check off "15min. of fame" from their bucket list - right!? No use in saving it for some crazy thing they do when they're teenagers or worse college kids! NO- I kid, they are the coolest kids around.

Remembering to walk no faster than I can run!

2011-01-06T09:20:00.000-08:00

So it's the start of a new semester for all of us in the Miller house hold. It should be a good one as at the beginning of the week I was taking two classes and now am only enrolled into one. I had a major heart to heart with you know who and the scripture about not walking faster than you can run came to mind. I also struggled not being able to be with my kids for a whole day - that was depressing for sure! I love being able to come home and do their homework with them, read with them, make dinner for them, and talk with them about their day. I knew I had to do it (that is drop one of my classes) when I came home and they were climbing in bed, and telling me not to worry cuz they got their 3 chapters in the Doction n' Cobenants read and said family prayers. STAB, STAB, STAB, my heart was bleeding and I KNOW where I was suppose to be and it was not in class.

SO - back to balance, I wish I could do more!

In any case, I did want to share with anyone this amazing YouTube video my professor shared with us. First, what an amazing way to keep people engaged in a lecture that although filled with intriguing information could be taken as a great time to nap! So, please enjoy - and maybe learn? YOU DON'T HAVE TO - but it might surprise you?

Smile peeps who need pics!

2010-12-28T14:15:00.000-08:00

I'm so excited to enter this contest! Angela was a co-worker of Aaron's in a past life (before the school daze) and was such a sweetheart! I hope I win this contest!! Go check her out!

http://www.ivorylimephotography.com/

Merry Christmas!

2010-12-23T13:54:00.001-08:00

Give more then you Have

2010-12-13T09:29:00.000-08:00

So, this is awesome - I'm able to give this Christmas more than what I have in my budget! AWESOME!! If you haven't used this before be sure to let them know I sent ya and you'll be giving back to me!!

'TIS THE SEASON!

http://www.citydeals.com/?ref=CDUMTUyMDk1

Just because...

2010-12-02T15:00:00.000-08:00

you probably won't receive a Christmas Card in the mail from me, I'm posting my card on my blog. I've never been one to send out cards - create a card, yes - mail them out, nope! It is definitely one of my weaknesses, and YES I know better, and have been taught better - so please do not blame my parents, grandparents, or education - it's all me! Also know that it's not because I don't care - to be honest - so many priorities take a higher rank than this that I just simply never get to sending them out, or have the money to when I get the chance. In any case - please feel free to print this off and write the following on the back and hang it with all your other "better" friends who actually do send out their cards.

"All my Christmas wishes are that everyone find a special person to share their Christmas Day with! Remember Families ARE Forever - as cliche as that may sound I BELIEVE IT with everything I do, say, am! It's what makes the years pass with happiness. All our love, The Millers."

I guess I should give some credit to Jen Dicou who told me about the amazing website to do the fun word art! Gracias Jen!

Thanksgiving

2010-12-02T13:59:00.000-08:00

Thanksgiving this year was spent with the Nicholas family. It was so fun to be with my grandparents, Aunt Kathy, and some of my cousins. I was really grateful that I was able to go help set up the tables and have some very sweet moments with my grandma and grandpa. It is always fun to listen to their stories when my mom was little, and they were a young couple trying to get through the War. Learning that my grandma's house was at one time a restaurant that had to close up shop so my grandpa bought it with out her knowing was priceless. I'm so lucky to have a family with such strong ties.

The other special moment - well at least after some finageling - was being able to see and talk with my brother's family who live back East. Skype is a blessing for sure! I can hardly wait to wrap my arms around those darling kids when they come out this Christmas.

Lastly, the best thing about this Thanksgiving was that I didn't have to wake up to do any Black Friday Doorbusters! Don't get me wrong, I love to shop that day - and will do the doorbusters with a smile - but being able to sleep in was pretty great too. I do have to say that as I was getting ready I found myself a bit anxious about all those who had gone and purchased EVERYTHING so I would have NOTHING - No worries though, I got all I needed and more!!! Not to mention a girls weekend away with my cousins - man do we know how to party, laugh, and well - let's just say there is lipsinc video that should be destroyed - RIGHT KATH! Good times, good times!

Definitely I have been blessed this year with amazing family, friends, and health. My work is all I ever wanted - flexible so I can be with my kids, fulfilling as a professional, and pays the bills (well, most of them) - can't complain that's for sure! I also have plenty to look forward too this year - most especially the graduation of my husband from college! It's been an amazing journey, I'm just excited to get to the next phase.

Free OWLS! Yea...

2010-11-19T08:09:00.000-08:00

Look what I found off of one of my lovely blogs I follow... I am in HEAVEN! Yes, I have caught the owl craze wave. I'd like to say that I did when no one else did, but it was just this last Spring that I saw some paper, then my friend made me a necklace with the cutest owl, shoes were purchased, more jewlery... most of it purchased by the coolest friends any one could ask for! In any case, HOW CUTE IS THIS CALENDAR!!! Have a fun time with these prints like I did.

Gettin' ready...

2010-11-16T12:08:00.000-08:00

I am so excited for Christmas, saw this on one of the blogs I follow and laughed so hard!

Adele is back...

2010-11-15T14:20:00.000-08:00

This young woman is amazing... I love her music!

OMCuteness...

2010-11-04T14:47:00.000-07:00

Just have to blog this picture... I love my monkey! It's funny, when he was younger and in his toddler stages I thought, he's not going to be your traditionally cute kid like his older bro. BUT - I totally knew he'd still be dang cute to me.... WELL, WELL, WELL - Was I wrong or what!! He Is Absolutely CUTIE-PATUTIE!! I know I'm biased, but I do know cute!

Good Work!

2010-11-01T13:42:00.000-07:00

Well I got my first taste of "parent" homework... I mean don't get me wrong, I've been helping my kids with their home work since kindergarten. BUT THIS!!! WOW!! I can't believe I got stuck in 4th grade... I had to go online and re-educate myself to help Rhett out with his rock collection. And yes, he informed us the night before that it had to be done TOMORROW!! AWESOME! It was probably a good thing because I might have been tempted to just go and buy a rock collection already made up. BUT NOPE - we did an all nighter and got it finished. GOOD NEWS! WE GOT AN A! Well they don't give letter grades any more... so we got all the points and to us that means A! And yes, Rhett did a lot of the work, but so did Aaron and I. WOW... to be honest I better get my Master's degree done soon or else I won't be able to finish all my kids work AND my work! YIKES!

Asthma...

2010-10-12T10:42:00.000-07:00

The Miller family had "one of those weeks" about a month ago and well I think I am at a point where I can share without getting too emotional. It was a Friday when things began. I found out that Monday I would have to go in and report for Jury Duty. Saturday we attended Weber's Football game which was good - what am I saying - it was AWESOME! Weber won after a treacherous battle through overtimes, and a 20min spell of darkness when the stadium lights turned off in preparation for the fireworks. Needless to say it was a long game, but fun.

The kids stayed at Gma and Gpa Millers and well the cats along with the air quality did not do well for our sweet Roman. So once again he got sick. I didn't notice it though until Wednesday because of coarse I was picked to be on the jury. This lasted until Tuesday late. WAY FUN! *please insert sarcasm* It's interesting how on Monday I thought that my week was going to be discussing the ins and outs of the trial with everyone after it was all over.... NOPE!

Wednesday morning my sweet Roman could barely breath. I was so frustrated because on one hand I knew I needed to take him to the doctors, however on the other hand I was tired of being told he had pneumonia. Since he was born, having inhaled amniotic fluids, then at two having a severe allergy attack, and then continued to have breathing problems, he had been diagnosed 5 times with pneumonia (or close to it). In the last 3 years I have had my suspicions. Unfortunately I couldn't find a physician that would listen to me. So I decided that this time would be different... ENTER CRAZY "Get'er done" MOMMY...

I sent out the text to family (THANKS LACY & BETHANY) who are currently working with physicians who did listen to them about their children. I was given a couple of names which of coarse were busy, so we went to a Physician Assistant by the name of Alisa Barnes - who needless to say has become my hero. I was, how we say, "fit to be tied" and planned on not leaving until real answers were given. Don't ask me what those "real answers" were going to be... I just knew it was NOT pneumonia. Upon our arrival Roman's oxygen level was at a 83, and after many attempts to bring it up to the average 95 we just couldn't. The best he would get to was 88 unless on oxygen. Look how cute he was getting his treatments... sweet boy! He was so afraid he was going to get a shot. Dr. Barnes was so great to help him feel comfortable that he was not going to have to get a shot and that there were other ways to help him feel better.

The moment I knew we were going to get the help we needed was when she realized that we had not had the diagnosis of asthma granted to us. She asked me, "So how much albuterol (sorry about the spelling? still learning all this stuff)do you have left at home?" And I started to cry and explain that we don't have any and no one would give us any and that I don't know what I'm doing other than what I feel has been done is not right. She re-acted perfectly... sincerely surprised, heartbroken, and even cried a bit with me. Then she did exactly what I have been looking for from the very beginning... she rolled up her sleeves and promised me that we would figure this out together and that she would be right beside me helping me understand.

K- now I'm crying... really it's hard to explain the relief, hope, and gratitude of a mother who officially "knows nothing" and yet is taken serious when she "feels" something. She was definitely a "Sister in Zion" doing an angelic errand - I don't even know if she's LDS... which I know doesn't matter. What matters is that MY Father in Heaven - loves me and listens to my prayers.

Although that was the beginning of the endeavor, and we had to end up admitting him into Primary's Children Center - which, by the way, Roman did NOT want to leave.... I thought grandparents were the worst offenders of spoiling children, not so - well maybe they are tied. In any case you can see for Roman, it was not too bad. Well until just before we left when they made him get his flu shot. I try to warn people about my kids strength... it took 1 male nurse, 1 male nurse tech, and a mommy to hold him down. Good times, good times.

That Saturday we came home with a healthier child, on the mend, and with a plan for the future. He's an amazing boy. And although my once sweet, docile, calm child is now a fun loving, ready to play - move - run - GO GO GO child, that is not always appreciated when in church or other 'quite' places, I AM GRATEFUL! So grateful that the fact that my car was damaged by a stupid tire shred on the freeway doesn't even matter.

SO - ASTHMA - Here come the MILLERS!

We are prepared, and ready to enjoy life no matter what it brings... (but please don't tell Satan that ;>)
animals, exercise, bad air days, flu season... WE ARE READY!

We are even ready for the hospital bill ... not happy about it .... but ready ;)!

By the way - it dawned on me after we had to miss my cousin Robby's wedding because of this little hospital stay that my cousin Kenny (Robby's brother) is going to be an AWESOME PA for a future mother like me... Respiratory Therapy background... AWESOME!

For the many family and friends who helped us out that week - THANK YOU! Those who didn't know- let me apologize! Really it went so fast, and I was so unsure of what was going on from one minute to the next that I didn't get the 'word' out like I know I was probably suppose to. SO DON'T FEEL GUILTY or like you are not on my "contact list" especially if you are just finding out about this event... really it was those who talked to me for other reasons that week that found out. I LOVE YOU ALL and know that with one call you would be by my side! I am a well kept woman!

Marshmellow Wars

2010-10-07T21:44:00.000-07:00

It's amazing what a Wednesday night of fun with the Young Women can become. These are some of the most amazing young ladies I know! I love each of them so dearly and if you know any of them you are EXTREMELY LUCKY!! This was a Laurel's activity with a great turnout. Each of us had a bag of BIG marshmellows that were covered in flower, needless to say I had to wash my hair twice that night to get all the flower out of my hair. Good times, good times. Love you ladies, and thanks for all the fun you bring into my life and that of my family.

too cool...

2010-09-15T22:00:00.000-07:00

I love this picture. It was a great but slightly long day as we went to the movies and then to dinner down in Salt Lake. Rhett had just bought his fadora with his birthday money - the long awaited hat that makes him "cool and older", whatever makes you happy says mom! In any case, the fact that he wants to be a teenager is driving me crazy, it's practically all he can talk about - well that and skateboard video games he got for his birthday. So when you see your wanna be teenager still snuggling with his baby (yes still calling him the baby- don't even go there as I too find it pathetic) brother you snap the picture and put it in your blog for all posterity to see! I tried to ROCK STAR it up so he doesn't get too embarrassed, but what can a mom say - LOVE YA RHETT!

My baby... no more?!

2010-09-01T09:06:00.000-07:00

So Roman turned five this summer and had a fun birthday with family. The thing is - HE'S MY BABY!! You know every time I go through another mile stone I hear those who have gone before me saying "Your gonna feel ..." and remembering me saying - "No, not me - I'm not that sentimental" WRONG-O!!! I've really got to stop assuming that I'm someone I'm not!

Roman has started Kindergarten and is loving it! His favorite part is snack - oh man! He's mine! I was sure it was going to be recess, and when I asked he said that because of the rain he wasn't able to go play on the big toy. He was also upset that he can't go play with the other "big kids." The funny thing is, I've been so worried about him, and he is taking this all in great strides. He's especially excited to walk home with his bro & sis - can't say that I'm too excited, so I've planned a couple of drive-bys to check that he's ok. UMMMMM - can we say OVER PROTECTIVE!! CRAP! This is harder than it looks people! I keep squeezing the crap out of him every night cuz too soon he'll be too big to snuggle with - uh, he might already be there but I'm in denial, ok I guess it's not denial if you know it's wrong but are still doing it - OH MAN is he going to need a therapist! Oh well - what kid doesn't!

Favorite Summer Moments...

2010-08-21T18:01:00.000-07:00

This summer went by so fast, I can't believe Monday starts school. Some things that I remember about Kenidy this summer was that she was always laughing. When we went on our mini-vacations her smile made things that seemed so CRAZY go by so smoothly. Her imagination was running wild, and she enjoyed going to the library, playing with friends, and singing out loud with her ipod playing some of her favorite songs. I am so excited for her to start school, so is she, which makes her the odd one out of the family. No surprise though - she loves being with people and sharing her love for life. It's going to be a great year for her as she is planning to be baptized, and is in the process of reading the Book of Mormon. She is a GREAT reader! Watch out world - she is a doer!!!

Reagan Choate

2010-06-03T15:37:00.000-07:00

LOOK AT MY CUTE NEW NIECE!!
WELCOME TO THE FAMILY
REAGAN!

LOVE IT!

2010-06-03T15:12:00.000-07:00

I wanted to show everyone my new phone.... THANKS SKIN IT AND DIGI SCRAP DOWNLOADS! Isn't this just the cutest phone... or should I say ADORABLE! I got this for my birthday about a month ago, but wanted to show it off to those who may not have seen it. I have to say, I didn't think I was such a "techy" - I don't even know if that is how you spell that. In any case, being able to look up things online on my phone - - - let's just say, I ROCK AT SCRIPTURE CHASE!

Thank You!

2010-05-25T09:38:00.000-07:00

Often this weekend is centered around my mother and other very close family who have left this life to continue their journey on the other side. However, right now I would like to say THANK YOU to the soldiers including my father-in-law, gradfathers, great-grandfathers, uncles, cousins, and friends who have served to the fullest expense. The sacrifices made so that my family may have, do, and be what ever our desires are makes me grateful and humble. I hope that my choices granted by your sacrifice do not disappoint you. I know they have not always been "right," but I do learn from them (or try to). I don't know that I can say thank you quite as special as those voices in the video:

Where's my kids at?

2010-05-15T12:34:00.000-07:00

It's about DARN time!!

2010-05-14T14:58:00.000-07:00

So here I sit surrounded by girlfriends, taking one BIG deep breath. Grateful for the birds, creek, and wind through the leaves of the trees that have answered my SERENITY NOW cry; I am ready to blog. I'd like to take a second to catch up everyone (or anyone for that matter) of the adventures that we as a family have been experiencing.
FIRST: I AM EXTREMELY PROUD OF MY HUBBY! He completed 18 credits this semester, is 6cr. shy of his degree, and is now accepted into the Education Certification Program. It's been three years that he started this school thing; filled with ups, downs, and an extremely overbearing wife but he was patient, worked hard, and has accomplished an amazing goal.
SECOND: Easter/Spring BLISS!

THIRD: BIRTHDAYS!! Both Kenidy and I completed another year. I had been looking back over the year and my "34 Dreams" post seems like it was just yesterday. And yet, I have had some of the most amazing experiences; well above 34 - so I feel completely blessed. I am not very excited about the fact that I am getting older, but I am trying to do it gracefully... fighting every gray hair that pops up. My cute new phone though is really making life fun! I'd post a picture, but BLOGGER is buggin' out right now. In any case it's the Droid Aris, and I custom made a skin that's all cute 'n stuff - hehe ;D

Now that we are all caught up (well enough to get a move on) I'd like to showcase my latest endeavor: crochet and knitting! I don't have my knitting done, but look how DARN TOOTIN' CUTE the blankets are that I did for my soon to come niece Reagan.

I know they're pretty cute. I think my mom would be completely surprised that I did this, but all in good time. Which makes me think... I better not get angry with Kenidy when she doesn't want to learn or do things when I want her to learn or do things.

ALL IN GOOD TIME!

Right Keni!

To be or not to be FOOLS!

2010-04-01T13:53:00.000-07:00

To be or not to be... yes this week has been a week of ups and downs and still has not ended.
FOR CRIMANY SAKES HERE'S THE BREAKDOWN!

Sunday was an up - a great afternoon with family as we sent one of our own out to serve his Lord on a mission to Florida. We are so excited for him and can't wait to hear all the stories. GOOD LUCK JAKE! His mom (and supporters) did an amazing job of having the most delicious (IN ABUNDANCE) food available to easily 100 (and most likely more) people. We are going to miss those Maddox rolls! I guess we can go buy them - whatever!

Now Monday my sister had to go into surgery, which came with some slight downs and fortunately is at this point an UP - I watched her kids on Monday, and had a great time working on my knitting skills and laughing at her son be the cutest thing in the book. KEEP GETTING BETTER SWEETIE, and let us know what we can do to help!

Tuesday was SCARY I guess is a better word than down - with February a shorter month you can imagine that me being a couple days (almost a week) "late" was not a........ let say - WELCOMING feeling. Emotions got crazy, plans started being hatched, and then I got fed up with guessing and took a test - NEGATIVO!! Which was - Gracias al Senor - a relief. Now I know some of my family would say - "You should have more kids" - I KNOW: 1) my kids are beautiful...I know, ;) 2) I'm a good mom and Aar's a good dad.... debatable at times but we do try hard which says a lot, 3) how fun for Keni to have a sis. - WELL - as all of those things may be true - IT'S JUST NOT IN THE CARDS! So an appointment is getting made for Aar as soon as we know whether the insurance we have now is better than the one we will have come July.

So Wednesday WE ARE UP AGAIN... and really the UP just kept getting higher as last night I spent an amazing night with two of my most favorite men - Aar (of coarse) and MICHAEL BUBLE!!! What a great concert - if you get the chance (especially Tag and Thesha - I'll explain in a sec) GO!!! His opening act was NATURALLY 7 from America's Got Talent (I think) - THEY WERE FABULOUS - and ACAPELLA - see them in action:

and then came HIM!

SO - Now I'm on cloud 9 and can start my Easter/General Conference weekend with a smile, A BIG SMILE on my face. I LOVE MAKING EVERYDAY THE PRESENT! Thanks Mom - and Happy Birthday - it's not 'til the 11th - but April Fools is a day that always reminds me of her - she was always having fun on this day - SO TAKE HER ADVISE AND HAVE SOME FOOLISH FUN TODAY!. :D

For your entertainment -

2010-03-12T15:29:00.000-08:00

I promised this video a while ago... enjoy!

Date Night...

2010-03-08T13:23:00.000-08:00

So my brother-in-law just got engaged to a real cutie-patutie that I am so happy about and excited to have around because as you know it's really all about me (hehe). Anyway, watching them together has been really fun. It also has reminded me how much I love date nights and their vital role in a happy marriage. This last week Aar & I went out to dinner and a play, and although the play leaved little to compliment, it did allow us to have a conversation that had NOTHING to deal with kids, finances, and work woes. We ate a delicious "real" mexican meal and reminised on our missions, laughed at weird moments in the play - you know those behind the hand whispers that make you want to burst out laughing - and ultimately reminded me (not that I needed it) why I love him so much. We really do belong together! We laughed that this sweet new couple have push-up contests, whereas we had our BK Whopper contests. Yes indeed! Great times, great times. And although we picked the wrong contest to flirt with each other with, it worked then and it still works now. So although Valentines has passed - show the love, spark the light, and enjoy the kindled flame between you and your love! If you don't have one yet - KEEP TRYING - it's worth all the tears, and meanwhile watch this too cute vid to feel the love.

a shot in the dark from Nathan Pickett on Vimeo.

Just to Laugh...

2010-02-24T13:03:00.000-08:00

It's moments like these that make me miss those innocent days (well, my innocent days) of Johnny Carson! Mom would be laying in her bed across the hall with a Diet Coke and, on a good night, some licorice. I'd beg to keep my door open as I tried to hear the Tonight Show and pretend I knew what the jokes were about. This and the start of M.A.S.H. still to this day help me sleep - good times, good times.

Friday Night Concert

2010-02-20T15:29:00.000-08:00

How do you like these rock and roll kids! We have been having so much fun the past couple of weeks playing with our kids on Friday nights. For Valentines I got Beatles Rock Band and absolutely LOVE IT! Kenidy and I sing our favorites Dear Prudence, Here Comes the Sun, and so many others (including from the other games) while the boys, including Aaron play the guitar and sweet rowdy Roman plays the "Elmo drums" - It is a ton of fun, and we end up just smiling from ear to ear as our kids TOTALLY GET INTO IT (as you can see from the photos). This Friday I decided to take some pictures and video. SO - if you have a couple of minutes please enjoy the Miller Family Friday Night Concert! Believe me it gets better as it goes. I'm also posting this picture of Keni - because well,

SHE IS FABULOUS DARLING!

Musica to move

2010-02-17T10:10:00.000-08:00

Just thought I'd post this musica to get some vibes going - and get me through this rainy weather. I wish I was in Guatemala!! :D

Feliz Cumpleanos

2010-02-08T16:44:00.000-08:00

Well Aaron is turning 34 tomorrow. I am so proud of my honey and his achievements. I saw this picture and thought of him. To know Aaron is to know this part of "Couples Retreat"... he is hillarious and is waiting for that moment when he must prove his worth by out playing the best in Guitar Hero or Rock Band.

Couples Retreat

Hahahahaha... oh my funny valentine

I hope your day is great!

My turn...

2010-02-02T10:26:00.000-08:00

So now that you have experienced the exciting Christmas of my family, I should tell you that I TOO recieved a surprise to beat ALL surprises! I awoke that morning excited to see the kids do their thing, and to get on my way - however, there like a sidenote to an amazing day was an envelope. As the saying goes, big things really do come in small packages; and so I ripped open the side of the envelope and pulled out two tickets to...

CAN YOU BELIEVE IT~ I know, it's kinda a present for Aaron too because even though Aaron said I could take any one I'd like (which WILL BE HIM) he knows that I will come home VERY HAPPY and as they say in Mama Mia " dot dot dot"! Just in case I don't remember my camera for that evening I wanted to show you what I will be doing that night... wait for it... while at the concert.

AHHHH... how fabulous!

Bipidy, Bopidy, Boo...

2010-01-27T15:49:00.000-08:00

Songs can be found on a Disney Princess Karaoke CD, and one of the songs is titled "A Family United" from the movie Meet the Robinsons. Needless to say, it was a great vacation!

Christmas Morning

2010-01-22T14:47:00.000-08:00

So this Christmas - as those who have been reading know - Santa surprised the kids with a trip to Disneyland... and yes, we left on CHRISTMAS DAY! It was so much fun to see the kids read the letter from Santa, open their clue box, and come to the realization that we were going on vacation. To be honest, the boys didn't quite get it until their sister YELLED - "WE'RE GOING TO DISNEYLAND!" It was so much fun for me and really fulfilled one my dreams. We were also lucky to be able to share the experience with my sister Holly and her family. I am working on my Christmas slideshow so that will be coming real soon - I hope.

Christmas Eve

2010-01-12T14:17:00.000-08:00

So I decided to take a bit of time and space to go through our Christmas holiday. It was fun filled and packed with excitement during that week, so I don't want to skimp. Not to mention that January is only busy with school **BOOO RING**. A lot more fun details with Christmas!

Christmas EVE: Nicholas Family

We spent Christmas Eve with the Nicholas side of my side of the family. I know, a bit confusing, but basically it's my mom's side of the family. In any case, we had a lot of fun with cousins, extended cousins, aunts/uncles, great aunts/uncles, grandpa Choate, and Grandma & Grandpa Nick.

Since I was a baby this family has been getting together on Christmas Eve. There was a split second a couple years ago when I thought it would be over, but we pulled together and have been continuing the tradition. I LOVE THIS FAMILY - they have been a major part of my life!

First, FOOD! It was great, THANKS KATHY for doing most of the work! Next, the nativity where Rhett was the inn-keeper, Keni - angel gabriel, and Roman - a wiseman (holding a sheep cuz we thought he was a shepard). This is a tradition I participated in I believe from birth. At least for as long as I can remember. After this is the Talent portion - oh what fun. Now my kids are older and can really prepare. So we went down stairs and pulled out my mom's OLD music book with all the songs we use to sing with her (and my Aunt Kathy's) children's singing group. Keni only had one front tooth missing so they decided to sing "Nuttin' for Christmas" - I don't have the music with me so I'm not sure who wrote it. Here are my kids... *warning; mom forgot music sheet and so the kids felt they had to read it - and there is no tune for them to follow, listen at own risk*

THEY SOUND BEAUTIFUL

is my official statment

Finally, presents! THANK YOU Grandma & Grandpa for the always great extra cash in the pocket! You are the best grandparents anyone could ask for, and I am humbled and grateful to be in your family tree! All my family's love! We'll see you soon - hopefully prior to *'our family's month.'

*For those of you who don't know or understand why I would quote that - Every year four families go together on a "CALENDER" - it's been a great gift that my late (amazing) cousin Jill thought up. Basically three months out of the year our family (the other families take the other months) go visit my grandparents and help around the house with odds and ends. It has been a great experience for both them (or at least that's what they tell us - and I believe them) and MOST ESPECIALLY for us!

YW at Temple Square

2010-01-03T19:10:00.000-08:00

Well Christmas has come and gone and it's now 2010 so now I am doing catch up. I've got so much to share from the last three weeks. I will try to get everything up quickly, but I can't promise anything as school for the kids, Aaron and I begin tomorrow. Fortunately, I will only be taking 2cr instead of 6 credits - but this time it's an actual class & not online classes. It should be interesting. I'm also nervous because Aaron will be taking 18 credits - we'll see how long that lasts, but we have HIGH HOPES!! :D

Any way - first on the catch up list is the fun night I had with some of my Young Women at Temple Square. They are so great, and we are so lucky to be able to live so close to SLC. I don't know that they realize how lucky they are, but they will someday. I didn't realize until I was on my mission to Guatemala and saw the excitement in the members and my companions when the prophet came to visit. I had always taken my ability to attend General Conference in person for granted. NO MORE - I feel very privileged to live so close to the leaders of the Lord's church. In any case, I had tons of fun ladies. I am excited for the next year and all the fun we will be having together, our testimonies growing, and the building of friendship bonds never to be broken (challenged - but NEVER BROKEN)!!!

Christmas Card...

2009-12-15T18:13:00.000-08:00

Because I am me, and I have a Christmas trip to the happiest place on earth to prepare for *this is a Santa gift to the kids so shhh* , and my brother-in-laws homecoming, and YW meetings, and to top it all off I am speaking in church on Sunday - my Christmas card this year is being sent electronically. Because you have access to my blog you have seen what the family has been up to for the past year. SO - I love you all - and pray that this Christmas is filled with the love of our Savior, and that your days may be filled with rememberance of (that means smile when the tears are falling - even if it's hard) those who have passed on, excitement for any newcomers (either by marriage, friendships, or birth) that may enter your life, and huggs & kisses for those you share each moment with today and all the days to come.

I KNOW...

2009-12-08T11:17:00.000-08:00

So the past couple of days have felt like my world has become heavier and heavier to carry. Little things just kept coming to a head. I have recently been called to be the 1st counselor of my Young Womens, which means I hold the mantel of taking care of the MiaMaids class (girls ages 15 & 16). Which are actually the same girls I 'advised' or taught when in the Beehive class. I guess they really are "MY GIRLS" and I am feeling it! I love them soooooo much, and they are going through some of the toughest times as a teen - Who am I? Where do I fit in? Adults really don't get me! - Life pressures and issues are more real then ever - and yet, I KNOW THAT MY REDEEMER LIVES and I know that these are some of the strongest young women I have ever known! So as I don't fear what is ahead for them in their lives, I still worry that they will forget who to turn to for help. I know sometime I do!

Today a good friend - what am I saying - a GREAT friend sent me the below youtube video. It was a great reminder of the season's spirit, as well as who we all can turn to when trying to accomplish life's goals - no matter how big or long it takes!

*BE PREPARED WITH A TISSUE BOX*

Laughing at myself...

2009-12-02T09:29:00.000-08:00

Many know that I am a Twilight weirdo... yes I spent a good chunk of change to go see New Moon at mid-night, and absolutely adore Jacob... yes, I proudly wear TEAM JACOB buttons (in the dark, in a city where I am not noticed). In any case, I have to laugh at myself so that I don't cry at the pathetic nature of my wishing to stay young. So, here is a hilarious spoof on New Moon for all those who love to laugh at us TWI-DORKS! Don't worry - I'm laughing too!!

THANKSGIVING!

2009-12-01T13:20:00.000-08:00

This year we had a great time at the Millers. It is an exciting time as we are in great anticipation for Aaron's brother Benjamin to come home December 19th from his mission. I do need to say that the first picture and the last picture are two heros for me this year. My dear cousin Trudi and her girls stayed up all night and was able to get Zhu Zhu pets for my kids... yes THREE ZHU ZHU PETS + their home, a car, and slides that will just be fantastic for the kids. THANK YOU TRUDI and girls!!! Also, this year Aaron came with me to doorbust WALMART! WHAT.... yea you heard me - WALMART! It wasn't too bad as we were not getting a ton of stuff as this year we are taking the kids to a special place. Yea - I'm not even writing it out for fear that they may for some reason see the name and find out. In any case - I'm excited for the season of joy and happiness!

BRING ON CHRISTMAS!!!

GONE...

2009-11-24T12:37:00.000-08:00

Growing up I had ONE brother... and now he's gone... OK, OK, that's a little dramatic -
but he is CLEAR IN MARYLAND!

The good news is that he and his family couldn't be happier. They are building the home of their dreams in a very exciting new location, with their sweetie Tyler and a babe on the way! We are excited too because we - someday - will be able to go visit back East and not have to pay for a hotel. They are so close to so many things out there that it's hard to imagine crossing state lines within a 30 minute drive? It will be a great experience for them... and really for all of us in the family!

We do miss them, but fortunately they are starting a blog (Choate Family) that they promise to keep up to date every week! They better or they are going to have their Grandma Nick pounding at their door one day wondering if they are still alive, and to check her list of great-grand babies! I'm givin' you guys a fair warning right now ;D

Anyway here is a few pics of our last FHE with them - it was swiming at the hotel pool!

WE MISS AND LOVE YOU GUYS!

new fun...

2009-11-19T13:31:00.000-08:00

So during my lunch break today I started going through my FABULOUS browser sites listed below and click - click - click I came across this fun new site, Photovisi, that will do my collages for me FOR FREE!!

FABULOUS!
(I didn't have all of the pics "PSed" - photo shopped - which would make this even better)

I am so excited because what can normally take me hours to do took me literally (and I mean the literally that my BBFF - "blog best friend forever" - Lisa, that's Blue and Shoe under the list, speaks about. Which by the way you should totally read!) TWO MINUTES!

Don't my boys look so handsome - and Keni - well she just is GORGEOUS DARLING ;)

So this is a collage of my beautiful munchkins having fun at the Scarecrow Festival with their cousins at Thanksgiving Point. They had a ball (not literally), going on all the blow-up toys, playing little carnival games, and getting their face painted. The best was when my dear nephew Hayden exclaimed what I had wanted to say the whole time, but keeping my mouth shut as to not destroy the fun for the kids... "THESE SUCK" - so true, so true Hayden. Your mom and I could have TOTALLY done a better job at painting your cheeks - but it did go to a good cause! Next time though - I AM SOOOOO going to just ask that I paint their cheeks for them. I'll still give them the 2$ (I want my 2 dollars - had to be said) just give me the paint and brush.

Well, I can't leave today's entry with out a shout-out to all my NEW MOON FRIENDS! Can hardly wait to see the wolftastic movie tonight! I LOVE MY LIFE :D

Snowed in

2009-11-15T18:13:00.000-08:00

This year's first 'real' snow fall came while the Keni and I were at a girls weekend up at my aunt's cabin. We had a fun time hanging out with family. The snow was beautiful, and we were glad to be up in the mountains where it was just divine. The trip started off by a fake out sighting of a moose, and ended with 8 ounces of projectile down my chest - somewhere in the middle, actually the whole middle was working with the Dish Network to get the Jazz game, too bad they lost (although it was a great game). I am very lucky to be a part of a family with so many AMAZING, FUNNY, and BEAUTIFUL women!

CLICK TO CONNECT TO MORE PICS!
Katie and Deanna also blogged about this weekend.

Too cute for words...

2009-11-12T21:36:00.000-08:00

I mean truly, can you just imagine how fun these would be for a BD party too!! I just love this.... YES, it is a cupcake, brownie, and cookies! I wish I had more time to do things like this... thanks bakerella's for this fantabulous idea! OHOHOOOOOH.... what about for a YW's activity? The ideas just keep on coming - I LOVE when I find things that just get my creative juices going. SO FUN!

It's DIGI scrapbook day...

2009-11-09T17:10:00.000-08:00

So this afternoon I let myself go exploring and I found two new (to me) sites with way fun stuff! So I thought I'd share since it is digi scrappbook day!

The first I found while trying to look for some free downloads. I love the Halloween pages and the great scrapbook ideas! SO YES I AM A FAN!

The second is a designer that is showcased on "Two Peas in a Bucket" site that I love to shop at... the site is The Project Girl. She has some cute freebies!

One of the things I fell in love with was this Kitchen Set.... SO CUTE!!

HAPPY DIGI SCRAP DAY!!

Scooby Doo Halloween

2009-10-27T21:36:00.000-07:00

This year we are having a lot of fun being the Scooby Doo clan. It worked out perfect with my new hair do... I just had to let it grow out longer then I originally had planned so I am counting the days for when I can get it fixed. But all in all we look pretty close... and my costumes are re-usable as regular clothes! LOVE THAT!!

School Pictures!

2009-10-15T16:50:00.000-07:00

So this morning we got ready for school pictures. The kids had a lot of fun picking out their clothes and getting their hair done. Well, kind of... after Keni's hair was half way curled she started to get a little anxious and wanting breakfast. So we went as quick as possible - but I started to realize her hair wasn't curling like it had been. Then it dawned on me that the flat iron was not heating up. UGH! So she ate a little breakfast while the old school curling iron heated up. They both ended up looking too cute for words. Rhett came home and said he had a couple 5th & 6th grade girls call him 'cutie.' Because I don't buy the pics until I see them, I took a quick photo of them for the record.

GAP Kids?

2009-10-14T13:54:00.000-07:00

So my friend Jen P. sent me this link to register my little girl in the Gap Casting Call contest. I thought about it for about 5 seconds and then went on to see what it was all about. I thought it would be fun for them if they do win, or even get to finals. If they don't as a momma I think they are the cutest, but I'm just being biased - as every momma should be! I was thinking how hard it would be for me if I was in charge of this contest. There were so many cute kids and well, it's a shot in the dark for maybe some fun trips back East. If you want to support us go ahead and click on their pictures to vote.

White Family Photoshoot... too fun.

2009-10-11T21:00:00.000-07:00

My friend Laura asked that Catrina (my friend and her sister in-law) and I come take her family pictures for her. We had a lot of fun, and the kids were so great! I had to race them at one point... I was out of breath before I realized what I had said. Thanks Laura for letting me be a part of such a fun night!
I love this last photo.... so seventies!! Seriously, can't you hear it... "I'll build you a rainbow..." oh, man - I better stop before I get too mushy! Love you guys!

Football UPS & downs!

2009-10-05T11:17:00.000-07:00

In case you didn't know, I LOVE FOOTBALL! And this weekend was filled with UPS & downs! First came the downs. Weber State had an amazingly devastating loss to Montana State. It was a good game, with awesome gains on the field and a few problems on both sides. The end was a nail bitter... to read more go to WSU ATHLETICS.

NOW FOR THE UPS!!

My BRONCOS, who I was very suspicious of how this season would be when they let go of one of the most amazing coaches Mike Shanahan, is 4-0!! YOU READ IT RIGHT! 4-0!

WAY TO KICK SOME BEHIND BOYS!!

MY MAN CHAMP!

Sassys Retreat Fall 09

2009-09-25T20:15:00.000-07:00

It's time to be jealous, cuz I have the best friends in the world! We are having a lot of fun at this year's Sassy Retreat. We have been shopping, eating, and scrapping. This year we took our photos up in Midway. I have been a having a blast with our photos. Here are a few that I've been working on...

Too cute...

2009-09-21T10:22:00.000-07:00

Ok so this is the cutest thing I've seen in a long time. I saw it on one of the blogs I follow, and followed her trail to missprettypretty's etsy site. I thought I'd share it with you all, to say OH HOW I WISH I HAD TIME TO MAKE THIS FOR KENI!!! But, it's most likely not going to happen. Maybe one of these day's I'll make it for... grandkids? Maybe then I'll have time. I just love how it fits on a card table, thus storage is FABULOUSLY easy!! You beautiful people and your ideas!!

Boredom in class - trouble - devistated mommy...

2009-09-10T17:28:00.000-07:00

So yesterday after homework was done, and we were eating dinner I noticed Kenidy's hair was not looking quite right. I began to panic - and excused Kenidy from my sight. I was afraid I would either physically or mentally abuse her because of the travesty she had committed to her hair. I didn't know that I would respond quite as drastic as I did because I would have guessed due to my mother's experience with loosing hair to chemo that hair wouldn't be that big of a deal. But when I had my Keni, and she had her beautiful long hair I made a decision to do everything possible to keep it long, healthy and beautiful. It became her trademark, AND NOW - she had made cuts shoulder high that would not be easy to fix. I also am ashamed that I let it affect me so -

It all happened at school. She was bored, couldn't find paper to cut while the other kids were finishing their craft project, and thus - snip, snip. My first response is to beat down her teacher for not watching her more closely, then I realize that is not the solution. So I would love to hear from anyone reading what you think, if anything, I should do.

In the mean time, here are the pictures of what my FABULOUS hair dresser was forced to do to make things as best as they can be. THANKS COURTNEY!! You were so understanding of my devastation, and hopefully Keni will listen to you.

Swiss Days in Midway

2009-09-07T19:14:00.000-07:00

My friends and I have been attending the Swiss Days festival in Midway for a few years now. It is always the weekend of Labor Day, and we usually go up Thursday night to Park City (about 20 min. away from Midway) and then head over around 7:30 in the morning. Some of my friends have been going for the past eight years. We have a great time together, and I am grateful to have these friends in my life. We did spend too much money, and could have stayed much longer. However, I got a darling new temple bag and the cutest hand made winter hats for me and Kenidy. I'll have to take pictures of us in them, cuz darn it - THEY ARE CUTE!! In any case, this was just a taste of what is to come - our SCRAP RETREAT. I am getting so excited, and will have to move up my count down so that it's up where I can see it...

Any way - if you have ever been to Swiss Days go ahead and let me know what your favorite thing about it is, or let me know why you don't go. I'd love to hear from you all -

practice with photoshop...

2009-08-30T19:21:00.000-07:00

So as some of you know I have been having fun with photoshop and photography. Now I am still waiting to get a really good camera, not just my point and shoot. But I don't have the money right now, and really it is just for fun with my scrap booking. None the less, I thought I'd share some of the pictures I've been taking and doodling around with -

Crazy Weekend of FUN!

2009-08-30T19:00:00.000-07:00

This past weekend was pact with lots of fun events.... well just two, but it filled the weekend. First both Rhett and Kenidy participated in the Future Falcons and Falcettes. They had so much fun with their friends.

We also spent the weekend with our cousins at Seven Peaks. We got a lot of sun, and played hard in the water. It was sad not to have dad there but thanks to cousins and aunts the kids were able to go and do all the rides and pools they wanted. It's great having family you can have fun with.

First (actually second) Day of School...

2009-08-26T20:27:00.000-07:00

The first day of school is a tough one when every single member of the family is starting classes, including mom and dad. However, after getting through that day we were able to get the swing of it and pictures were taken, well of the kids. Aren't they sooo cute! It's also been a lot of fun to hear of their adventures everyday. Some good, some not so good, and some just down right hilarious. Roman is dealing with 'kissy girls', Keni is a star reader, and Rhett is just as talkative as a kid could be. I am trying to remember to not wish any day a way - some are easier then others.

Ward Party...

2009-08-21T22:49:00.000-07:00

You know I have been in this ward for most my life... and there must be something in the water cuz they have always been a great ward. If you are seeing this on Facebook I don't know if you'll see the slide show... GREAT JOB ACTIVITIES COMMITTEE!

Nine is Divine!

2009-08-14T12:57:00.000-07:00

In place of a big party this year for Rhett's Birthday we took the family out to Lagoon for a stay-cation! BUT - we are working on getting great pictures of his present... a guitar with lessons. All summer long he had been asking for a bike, until about two weeks before his birthday. He became really excited about being in a band when he gets into Jr. High. All it took was his father pulling out the acoustic guitar I had purchased prior to our marriage. He was hooked. And so begin the pleads for a guitar of his own - 'A REAL ONE MOM!' Thus, with much discussion, the guitar and lessons was purchased.

I have to say, my Rhett doesn't get excited how Kenidy and I do - with jumping up and down, screams, and big smiles.... nope. He is a calm, sensitive, kind soul. His eyes teared up, and he got right down to business. I've learned over the years that this is his way of getting really excited. So be on the look out next week for new awesome pics of Rhett and his guitar!

I wanna be in a PARADE!

2009-08-07T12:35:00.000-07:00

On July 24th, as the family watched the Utah Pioneer Parade on television, my sweet Keni said, "Mom, I want to be in a parade!" I explained that the parade season was coming to an end and that there was not much I could do this year, but maybe next year. Kenidy is a very smart girl, and decided to take her desire to the only person she knew could help - the Lord. I heard her pray that night that she could 'make it in someones parade.' What faith she has because that next week I recieved an email from my cousin Katie that said Maddie (a neice on Roy's Cheerleading squad) was wondering if Keni and Skyler would like to do a Cheer camp and then 'perform' at Roy's parade. WELL, faith of children is great! And so my little sweet heart got her prayers answered and was able to participate in the Roy City Parade.

BY THE WAY...
Keni's father is an alumnae of ROY HIGH SCHOOL
however, it's her mother's arch nemesis
(as high schools go any way - GO CHS).

Ten Years & Counting - to what I don't know!

2009-08-03T12:36:00.000-07:00

Aug. 3rd 1999

was a beautiful summer day when Aaron and I were sealed for
Time & All Eternity in the Bountiful, Utah Temple.
We had a beautiful reception with a lot of family and friends. How exciting it is for us to have made it this far with many of those family and friends still a part of our lives. We have since made new friends... and new family ;) that have made our lives richer in every way - - - except for financially.... huh?! But as those who love us know - finance, shminance! What you can't take with you in the end isn't that important anyway! This is definitely a dream come true - gorgeous husband, who thinks I'm gorgeous no matter what, and can do pretty much anything I ask, and still make me feel like he's the king of my castle! I love you Aaron.
HERE'S TO 50+ more!

Dino & Clinton Firework Fun!

2009-07-19T14:36:00.000-07:00

We had a lot of fun this weekend. First we went and saw Harry Potter and the Half Blood Prince as a family, then met up with Tag & Thesha who were watching the Bodily boys at Dinosaur Park. We laughed hard when the boys started getting into the water fountain. And the kids loved seeing all the dinosaurs. After we went to Arctic Circle for dinner, where Tag had an 'accident.' Who would have thought. Finally, on Saturday we ended it with a bang watching Clinton's fireworks with everyone! We had a lot of fun, and we are very lucky to have such fun families!! This is one of my favorite things about summers!

2009-07-11T13:57:00.000-07:00

I am just having so much fun with my new photography passion!! Do you love this OR WHAT! Thanks to all those who give me such inspiration. A lot of the sites that I go to for ideas are listed below in my 'Let's browse - FABULOUS' section. This was taken at the 'OAKS' up the canyon. I love these photos and am excited to continue with this photography/publisher stuff! I am holding my breath for when I can purchase Photoshop!

Let's Fish!

2009-07-11T12:11:00.000-07:00

July 10th = Tommy Lasorda Day in Ogden!

2009-07-10T13:17:00.000-07:00

To hear more about why Ogden has a 'Tommy Lasorda Day' click me! In any case it was a nice surprise to see him the day we decided to go to the game. We love going to sporting events as a family and this was a great night!

Ready for another summer Tuesday -

2009-07-07T14:53:00.000-07:00

This summer I have my work set up so that I can spend all day Tuesday with my kids. I usually try to get to bed early so I can wake up and make them a fabulous breakfast, get the chores started and some of them done, and then plan for a fun activity for the afternoon. Aaron has a full day of classes and work so we don't see him until dinner time, which is usually around 7:30 during the summer. So it's me and the kids. I will admit that sometimes I have to talk myself into that day being special, but usually if I plan well it goes great!

A couple of weeks ago My kids and I were able to spend an afternoon reading, listening to music, and swimming. We also did a little Karaoke, and Rock band. Below is Kenidy singing one of her favorite songs - love you sis! I love having these special days with my kids. I hope they will remember them as much as I will cherish them. I am listing this post as one of my 34 dreams because it has always been a dream to have fabulous kids and be able to spend time with them having fun! They are each others best friends and I am a very lucky mom.

"Give me liberty or give me death"...

2009-07-04T15:52:00.000-07:00

This year for the fourth we awoke to our sweet Kenidy throwing up with a stomach ache. Knowing her like I do I knew I was either going to be sitting at home with her crying her eyes out and sick or trying her best to be happy at the events and sick. So the mommy that I am (I don't know if this is good or not) I brought her along for the fun.
She was exhausted by mid afternoon and took a nap with her cousin Hayden who had strep. (sp?)
My favorite picture though is of the two boys going up for candy at the parade. They all got lots of treats, and we had fun at Grandma & Grandpa Millers that night where Heather and Ryan treated us all to a
Southern Shrimp and Lobster Boil!! YUMMY!!
Oh and fireworks, Yea! Roman this year was not liking the fireworks and told Uncle Ryan after shooting off the first one, "OK, I'm done."

MY BABY - is not a baby anymore!

2009-06-29T12:40:00.000-07:00

This year for Roman's Birthday we shared it with his cousin Calvyn. Their birthdays are only a couple of days a part and both were wanting to go to Chuck E. Cheeses. I spent a good week trying hard to come up with a cute idea for the party. On Mother's Day I was given a cute little cake box from my mother-in-law that I had seen on Good Things Utah and thought was cute. This sparked a fabulous idea - turn it into a piece of cheese! The idea just kept rolling and out came a very cute invite and Micky & Minnie party idea. We had a lot of fun, and because we shared the party (most of the invited were duplicates because it's all family) it was fairly inexpensive. Thanks Holly for letting me take over - and I hope those who came had a good time. We were even lucky to have our family from North Carolina in town for the event. What a fabulous memory for Roman - my baby.

One little tid-bit about Roman, every time I say I love you he replies;
"I Love You the Most."
He is a cute little devil, and has the most contagious smile. Love you buddy!!

Cousins Visit from North Carolina!

2009-06-26T15:21:00.000-07:00

"BEE Prepared"

2009-06-23T17:10:00.000-07:00

We had a lot of fun this year at Girls Camp. I want the girls and leaders to know that they all mean so much to me and that I am lucky to have them in my life. My testimony was strengthened and I feel more prepared having gone and experienced such an amazing experience. Love you all!

TU - LIPS, TU - LIPS, *SMACK*!!!

EL INIQUO GATO...

2009-06-19T08:43:00.000-07:00

My husband comes from a long line of CAT LOVERS... and I, well, politely decline the pressence of a cat when ever possible. I may be known for having called them "Satan's pets", but it's just that - THEY ARE!! I understand that many of you may like, even love cats. I have learned to accept that, and have not said "GET HIM" when driving by one on the side of the road for over 10 years now. So kudos for me, right?! Truly, I am not a mean person, I just am not at all, nor ever will be a cat person. There is a reason, watch and you will know - (oh, and don't tell me this doesn't happen all the time - if it hasn't happend to you, it's cuz you are the cat!)

GO REDWINGS!!

2009-06-11T09:20:00.000-07:00

This Friday is GAME 7 (so it's the tie-breaker for those who don't get sports) of the NHL (National Hockey League) PLAYOFFS! Redwings (WAHOO) are defending their title against the Penguins who lost to the Redwings last year. There is a lot riding on this game. One of the players actually left the Pens last year to play for RW for A LOT LESS MONEY so he could win a Stanley Cup! ('Hossa' is the player's name.) So far he hasn't been showing up for the game like they need him to - but none the less - we are talking RWs, so there are many players on this veterans team who can get them the cup. One of the players ( 'Chelios') is 47 - and although doesn't play much still can keep up - well, Aaron would say, not really but better then anyone else his age could - I mean he's on the team right?! The players that I love watching are Lidstrom, Helm, and Zetterberg, oh- and McCarty. They really play like they love the game and with a lot of passion.

Any way you can tell we are big fans, and I often give Aaron a hard time for loving Hockey (mostly the RWs) more then me. But this week he was very sweet to ask me on a date for Friday night. I looked at him and thought 'oh, he want's to watch the game without kids - so if he takes me out, we find a babysitter, we'll go watch the game at his parents or some sports grill... yada, yada, yada' But that was not the case, he was quite serious and I told him...

"You think I'm crazy!! There is no way in you know where (I may have actually said the word - but I'm not putting it in print!!) that I would keep you from this game."

Trying to convince me that it didn't matter, I explained that no one outside of the two of us would ever believe me and I would feel like the jerkiest wife if I took that from him. So instead of going out we are staying in... watching the game! It's not that disappointing to me, I actually enjoy the game. That said, I thought (with his permission) I would show you a little of what Friday will be like for us. Many don't know my husband is like this... and really this is the only time outside of physical/mental danger to his family, you could ever see my husband raise his voice at anyone (or thing as the case may be).

LOVE YOU BABE!!

Patti Nicholas Choate, aka "Nana"

2009-06-10T15:09:00.000-07:00

Every memorial day since Rhett was born I have made it a tradition to take balloons up to my mom. Each child gets to choose a color, what ever color - and this year I made way cute tags for the balloons (if I do say so myself).
For those who know me the grave is not necessarily where I go to, well... remember her. But, I do want my children to know where her body is, and along with that - celebrate my knowledge (hopefully some day their knowledge) of the afterlife. I also want them to be excited about what I know to be true; and sending balloons for when we have that great reunion party is my way of remembering and teaching.
This year we started a new tradition that I hope will continue; each child and Aaron asked me a question about Nana. Right now it was about her favorite colors, foods, and things to do. I tell them how I remember it. If the answer is right or wrong is not what I worry about - I really just want them to know her like I know her, and feel like they can ask the questions they may have in the future about her. My hope is that this will connect them to the amazing woman who is waiting to hold them on her lap.

Starting off the summer...

2009-06-04T12:35:00.001-07:00

I love that we went to Burger Bar! Aaron and I would go here when we were kids, and have fond memories of this place with our families. It's fun to bring our kids here now. Who knows their spouse could have been in the car right next to ours.... yikes, I think there were some crazies next to us. Oh no, that's probablly what Aaron's family would have said too! I better be careful what I say - right!?!

How much fun can four girls have...

2009-06-01T12:52:00.000-07:00

Well we definitely had a blast at the concerts. And I don't have any pictures of Aaron and I at No Doubt, but we were awefully close and had the times of our lives.
I am barely getting my voice back.
As for Kenidy, Skyler, Katie and I - well, really it was one of the most memorable moments as a mom of the cutest girl in the world!
I would HIGHLY recommend attendingTaylor Swift with your daughters... especially after I saw the interview Gayle King did of her on Sunday (see below).

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Taylor Swift No Doubt... or is it the other way around?

2009-05-18T14:49:00.000-07:00

In just one week I will be experiencing an amazing couple of nights!! I have been so fortunate to have tickets to both the Taylor Swift and No Doubt concerts. I didn't realize until after I purchased one set and Aaron gave me the other that they were just a day apart! SOOOO... I'm pretty sure that come next Wednesday I will be dead (that's funny if you remember that Monday is Memorial Day) - k, not that funny, at the very least - I will truly be feeling my age. BUT COME ON - who wouldn't love to just go to concert after concert.... sing, dance, scream, and pretend that you are between the ages of 12 and 21! I said this was going to be the year of dreams... and so it shall!

Now, to plan my outfits... any suggestions? I have two very different looks that I'll be going for - so cowgirl it up and punk rock it out - give me some thoughts!

Dream #1 & 2....

2009-05-15T12:20:00.000-07:00

Photography and Digital Scrap.... I'm on my way! I just signed up for a photography course with...

and last night I went with Deanna to a digital scrapbooking class! I AM SOO EXCITED! If you want to join me at the photo class click the icon and sign up - I believe I did the AM session from 9-1 on Aug 8th - just in time for Rhett's BD!

RACE FOR THE CURE!

2009-05-12T15:08:00.000-07:00

What a great time we had as a family racing in honor of my mom, Patti, and my cousin, Jill! I love my family so much and this was our second year to participate in the Race for the Cure in Salt Lake City. We go down Friday and shop, eat (of coarse), and swim prior to waking up extra early to go to the race Saturday morning. This year we had a hard time getting on Trax to get us down town for the race. So we all kind of started our own race from the Trax station. It was still too much fun! Next year we plan to go down to MOAB for the RAFT for the Cure. HOW FUN FOR US!! I would definitely recommend getting a group of family members or friends together to do this - we raised over 500$!!!! HOW AWESOME! And curing cancer can't come quick enough!!!

MOM OF THE YEAR...

2009-05-08T08:38:00.000-07:00

My dear friend Jen sent this to me today, and so I want to share it with you in hopes that you will be so kind as to go and send this to all the mom's in your life! Truly we are together in this motherhood thing, and I am blessed to be surrounded by FABULOUS MOTHERS!!! I learn so much from you all.

MOTHER OF THE YEAR AWARD GOES TO...

Thanks to all my mothers!

Yellow...

2009-05-07T14:15:00.000-07:00

My Friend Deanna asked to know her friend's color...

Let me say I didn't agree with this until I was much older and could see myself for who I am. I think it had to do with a Red mother and a White father??? I can be frustrating to Reds and if a White loves a Red.... well I bug them too! And no Yellow will tell you they are the problem... that is of course if they're not a 'healthy yellow.'

Really to get into this discussion you must read both The Color Code and The Character Code, and maybe go to a few training sessions? It's a lot of fun (typical yellow response). As for Blues - they LOVE me - and I LOVE them back cuz we give each other exactly what we want ;) I still love the Reds and Whites - I married to a White and have learned how to be in a healthy relationship with Reds. It's tough but I couldn't make it without them, just ask my sister Cha!

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Yellows (Motive: Fun)

The following was taken from my Personality Profile after submiting my ColorCode test

Yellows are motivated by Fun. They are inviting and embrace life as a party that they're hosting. They love playful interaction and can be extremely sociable. They are highly persuasive and seek instant gratification. yellows need to be adored and praised. While yellows are carefree, they are sensitive and highly alert to others' agendas to control them. yellows typically carry within themselves the gift of a good heart.

Yellows need to look good socially, and friendships command a high priority in their lives. yellows are happy, articulate, engaging of others and crave adventure. Easily distracted, they can never sit still for long. They embrace each day in the "present tense" and choose people who, like themselves, enjoy a curious nature. yellows are charismatic, spontaneous, and positive; but can also be irresponsible, obnoxious, and forgetful. When you deal with a YELLOW, take a positive, upbeat approach and promote light-hearted, creative, and fun interactions.

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34.... really!??!!

2009-05-06T14:24:00.000-07:00

Today I turn 34 and I find myself really scared. I am normally a happy person when it comes to birthdays and if you follow this blog at all you can see I spend quite a bit of time, energy, and sometimes money on celebrating the births of my kids. I am not worried so much about getting old, in fact it is just the opposite. I am praying to see past.... well, I'm a little superstitious so I won't say a specific number. With that said, 34 is a year that scares me.

Why 34?

Well, you see this was the last year my mother lived without cancer; the last year I saw my mother do everything she wanted and not care about what time had left for her to accomplish. If you never knew my mother - well, you missed out. And if you lived in the Ogden/Clearfield/Sunset area most likely you know someone who knew her - and they would tell you of her beauty, strength, talents, and amazing accomplishments. She never said specifically she regreted any of her choices, but I know she had dreams she never got to accomplish.

As her oldest, and as a yellow (for definition of 'yellow' read The Color Code, by my family's friend Dr. Taylor Hartman), I was very frustrated with my mom's success - uh hello I wanted to be the center of attention and she inevitably outwitted, outplayed, and outlasted anyone at any event. Of coarse at the time I didn't understand my frustrations, and I did anything I could to not be like her. After her death I learned a lot about her and mostly about myself, I was 19. I changed from not wanting to be like her to wanting to be exactly like her... which changed too. For the past month or so I have been fixated on 'my time to go'. I know that sounds morbid, and I know that I "shouldn't" think this way. But I have - and now I want to have it all. Is that so wrong? I want to have the beauty, strength, talents, and amazing accomplishments -

AND LIVE OUT MY DREAMS!

So this, my 34th year, I will be spending every second making choices that may not make sense to everyone but will be me being me! I hope those who are a part of this ride will understand, and be patient with my decisions, actions, and craziness. I am sure to journal all the ups and downs, and those moments I feel I can share with the world I will write here. I had a lot of dreams growing up that I didn't pursue because.... well- there are too many reasons that don't matter anymore.

SO HERE I COME DREAMS!!

LOOKY it's LEDGER!

2009-05-05T10:59:00.000-07:00

So Saturday night I got a phone call from Holly saying that she had been feeling some light labor pains and was wondering if Cali could come spend the night in case... WELL NEVER DOUBT A MOTHER'S FEELINGS!! About mid-night Damon called and said they were heading in, Cha and I headed up around one and at 2:45 Ledger was here. HAPPY - well he was screaming like crazy so - for new borns that's happy - HEALTHY - and as the nurses kept saying a PEANUT!! He was 20in and 5.3 lbs.

A PEANUT!

CONGRATULATIONS HOLLY, DAMON, & CALI

Birthday CONCERT!

2009-05-05T09:48:00.001-07:00

My little buttercup.... is turning SIX!

2009-04-30T11:03:00.000-07:00

HAPPY BIRTHDAY KENIDY!

You are an amazing girl and have been a blessing not only in our family's lives but in the lives of all you meet. You make everyone you meet feel so good about themselves - and you are only ... FIVE, tomorrow I'll say six. You have a beauty that is only enhanced when people know your personality. I feel so lucky to have you as my child, and I'm excited for your future. YOU ARE GOING PLACES, my love! And I hope that you spend your last day as a five year old loving every second.

WE LOVE YOU!!
PLEASE give your Happy Birthday Greetings to our princess by leaving a comment!

WATCH ME WIN!!

2009-04-22T09:26:00.000-07:00

HOW CUTE ARE THESE... and the contest says to comment about ONE - UM... HELLO all of these are so flippin' cute that I had a hard time deciding. SO I thought about expressing who I am and as much as I would like to be the beautiful Black Beauty or Red Berry... I'm much more your KOOL-AID KID! So here is the watch band I think is me...

and to match your personality with a watch band go to http://beadblossomdesign.blogspot.com/

WHY ME??

2009-04-16T19:04:00.000-07:00

The day in the life of a woman who needs...

BUZZZZZ - the alarm,
BUZZZZZZZZ - the alarm again,
"MOM!!!" - three beautiful children (see pics) all needing help getting ready for school.

"Where's my socks?," "Where's my coat?," "I'm HUNGARY!," - is usually heard out of my mouth. I know, I know you thought it was my kids... nope, I'm the confused one!

We sit at the table and as I read to them they eat. I grab a FiberOne bar as we rush out the door usually late. Why? didn't you read - I couldn't find my socks.

Finally - I get to work - GO WILDCATS!
Now I sit at my desk where I see tons of college students on a daily basis with problems and questions such as;
"How do I study for ORGANIC CHEMISTRY?"
"How do I balance my life?"
"How do I pay for school?"

As I help them solve their problems I think to myself,
"How do I study for my Master's course?"
" How do I balance my life?"
and "How do I pay for school?"

Answers come and go... and everyday it's still the same... "???"

Well, the day is mostly over, I switch off the kids as my husband goes to school and work. As I kiss him goodnight at 4 in the afternoon, cuz I most likely will not see him unless I stay up past 10, he asks,
"How do I study for my History course?"
"How do I balance my life?"
and "How do I pay for school?"

"REALLY?" I ask... and then it happens - - I bust out with,

"LET'S GO GET A MASSAGE!"

He says, "really?" I then have to reply sadly due to the fact that any money we have goes to school, "nooo:(((."

How I dream to say one day - "YES,""YES,""YES!!" - well, you know what I mean.

Please, pick a woman on the edge! Did I mention - I AM ON THE EDGE!

oh and thanks for reading my entry... it was fun to do. For others reading - click either of the pics to find out more about this contest.

Can hardly wait...

2009-04-16T16:26:00.001-07:00

Every year my "Sassy" friends and I back up our kitchen sinks and then some extra fun stuff and head up to Park City for a "Scrapbook Retreat" at least that is how it all began. Sisters, cousins, friends, and neighbors found a common interest in creating beautiful pages of memories of our children a long time ago. Little did we know that three (a lot longer for some of us) years later we would have eternal friendships that are priceless. We have gone through many things together - some happy, some sad, some almost unbearable. And yet, every spring and fall we manage to convince our families that we need a break. First it was a couple, then three, and now four whole days away!! I think we are some of the luckiest women alive. Our "scrapbook retreat" is filled with shopping, food, hot-tub, food, movies, food, music, food, oh - and scrapbooking.... and yes MORE FOOD. Many times it is hard for us to get together, and finding the perfect date for the retreats is very hard. And yet - we MAKE it work. Just like a marriage, we don't always agree (thank heaven - how boring would that be), but we work at it - and the payoff, well I can't even begin to tell you all the things they do for me. It's the quick funny email of the latest Flight of the Concord video, a pizza when your sick, a girls lunch & movie, a quick "you would not believe what just happened to me" moment, finally - just knowing that they are there...

THANK YOU, THANK YOU, THANK YOU.

I have many friends (and I love them all!) but I want you Sassy's to know I am counting the seconds until our PC/SCRAP/CRY/LAUGH/BICKER/LOVE fest next week begins.

IT'S TIME!!!!

2009-04-09T15:26:00.000-07:00

HERE ARE THE LONG AWAITED SHIRTS FOR THE RACE!!

Prices
t-shirts
s-xl = $12.50
2x-3x = $14.00
sweatshirt
s-xl = $22.50
2x-3x = $24.00

JEN DICOU, a great friend,
designed them for us again this year which means we
get them at amazingly low prices! The prices listed include s/h & tax. If they seem a little bit more then what you spent last year it is because we went for the dark shirt so more guys would feel comfortable wearing them, and that meant we needed to pay for a third color when printing.

You DO NOT have to be a participant in the race to purchase a shirt!

LET ME KNOW ASAP IF YOU WANT ONE AND I'LL GET WITH YOU HOW EVER I KNOW HOW!

Ummm... WHY WAS I NOT INVITED!!!

2009-04-08T15:22:00.000-07:00

I would just like to say that if anyone ever decides to do this again... ok, closer to UT - then PLEASE invite me!!! HOW MUCH FUN WOULD THIS BE (don't forget to stop my music and turn up your speakers)...

So it's a contest...

2009-03-24T13:33:00.000-07:00

Hi ya'll - I'm just entering a contest for the cutest new found craft ! LOVE IT! Thanks Lisha for the insight!

http://charactersbylois.blogspot.com

BTW - Registration at work is CRAZY and so is my schooling...
so I might be absent for awhile!!

Just a PUNK at heart...

2009-03-19T17:18:00.000-07:00

So I did it... my hair is almost the same as my Guitar Hero character. I really do love it, and I want to thank Courtney for making it fun but still presentable. YOU ARE AWESOME COURTNEY!! Oh, and the pictures do not do it justice. Thanks to all those who convinced me to go for it on Facebook!

Spring is almost upon us... so out you go!

2009-03-16T15:07:00.000-07:00

I love when the weather lets the kids go outside to play! So as the days have been getting longer and the temperature has been rising I went and bought a jump rope and some chalk to give the kids something to do OUTSIDE!! It has been great!

FIND THE CURE!!!

2009-03-10T14:58:00.000-07:00

Click Here to find out more!

You may know that one in eight women will be stricken with breast cancer in her lifetime. What you may not know is that you can help these women and thousands of others in the fight against breast cancer.

On May 9, 2009 the Nicholas family will be participating in the Komen Salt Lake City Race for the Cure to honor my mom, Patti Nicholas Choate and my cousin Jill Brown Graves. Join the fight by registering as part of our team "Saving Second Base - pbj" or by supporting our efforts with a pledge contribution. The money raised through the Race will fund vital education, screening and treatment programs for underserved women in our own community and support the national search for a cure.

We had an amazing and surprisingly emotional time last year. We would love for you and your family and friends to join us - not to mention we had the cutest shirts, and will have the cutest shirts again this year. So if you would like more information about our teams shirts/sweatshirts please let me know.

What Kind of MOM....

2009-03-03T10:25:00.000-08:00

So I took a "What Kind of Mom Are You?" test on Facebook and I thought I'd share my results on my blog page as well. As you can see I'm like 'Kitty' from That 70's Show.

"You are doing pretty good! You know that being a strong mom is important and that you aren't perfect! You can laugh and cry with your kids! You demand respect and set a certain standard for your kids to follow! You are the MOM of the Year!"

Really I'm just glad to hear I answered the questions right. And while my kids are young... makes it a little easy to be soooo cool. When they get to be teenagers - well, lets just say I'm a bit afraid!!

Message for Women...

2009-02-25T10:24:00.000-08:00

If you can't view the video attached go to the following web site:
http://www.lds.org/pa/display/0,17884,4644-1,00.html

Hearts and Hair...

2009-02-18T11:22:00.000-08:00

I have been so busy this past couple of weeks that I haven't been able to update like I'd like to but fortunately other parents do really well in taking pictures of their and my kids. These are pictures of Keni's cute Valentines Hairdo. She had so much fun in her class last Friday. Also, we have been having so much fun together watching High School Musical 3. I know, I am a little old for it - but those who know me - know that is SOO NOT TRUE! The scary thing is I am raising a Sharpay.... as much as I try to encourage Keni to like Taylor's or Gabriella's styles, songs, and stuff - she just looks at me like uh - hello, I'm Sharpay. SCARY!!! But when she sings and dances to 'I want it all' I just want to eat her up!